Saturday, January 13, 2007

Humanitarian Visit - January 13, 2006

NOTE: I may write a narrative of our visit later but for now, I'll let the pictures and descriptions speak for themselves.

We finally went on our humanitarian drop today.






Here's the front of our convoy lined up, ready to go.



We took several ANA soldiers with us. It was great as they passed out most of the items and kept the kids and adults under control.


















We went to a girl's school first and passed out a few items.



















This little girl was wearing the most beautiful dress. The picture doesn't do it justice. The yellow circles on the dress were actually shiny spangles. Her dress sparkled in the sun. I mistakenly thought she came from a family with money but Wais pointed out that she was wearing sandals with plastic bags over her feet. He said that families will purchase beautiful clothes for their kids for the holidays despite not having money for other things.







Here I am in the line passing out clothes from a box my Aunt Merleen Fox sent. Thanks Merleen!!

I also got several boxes of clothes and toys from Sheryl Anderson and her ward's primary. It's the same ward that my cousin Russell and Melissa Fox live in. Thanks to them! Another thanks to Paula Goodfellow, another one of my donors that I've never met, don't know personally but who took the time to assemble boxes of clothes to send. Thank you!!
This young man was holding his sister. I gave her a beanie baby sent by my Aunt. I then noticed her feet. What do you see on them? Frostbite? That was about all that there was. When I noticed that, Wais and I went looking for a pair of shoes for her. We found a pair that fit perfectly in a box Marintha Miles. I don't know Marintha and don't know how she found about our need, but thank you Marintha for sending 4 boxes full of shoes!! I know this little girl and her family thank you as well!!



Janae sent me some mini-soccer balls. Soccer is the favorite sport here so you can imagine what a hit they were with the boys.



After we passed out the items at the girl's school, we went to another location where hundreds of kids and their mothers were waiting.


It was here that I passed out several boxes of items donated to Luke's Eagle Scout project. These boxes had the school supplies. The clothes were in a different location. Thanks to all of you who donated towards Luke's project. I still have lots of boxes under my bed and more are coming every day. We'll get them distributed before too long and I'll post the pictures at that time.

Here I am passing out hygiene kits that came as part of Luke's Eagle project as well as beanie babies. Like most kids, they were more thrilled with the beanie babies than they were with the toothpaste, but in the long run, I hope the toothpaste ends up being of greater value to them.



Here's one of the interpreters helping me pass out the school supplies that Luke sent.

















Merleen found some great blankets and sent them. Here's just one mother that was a recipient of her willingness to send things.





Merleen also sent lots of winter clothes. She made these really cool hats that also served as a scarf. Here's a picture of just one child I personally gave them to. The girls were so excited to receive them.

One of our secretaries at work, Cecilia Zambrano, knitted me some beanies. When I wore the black one I was told that it was not authorized. So, I put them to good use. I gave them to these brothers. I couldn't get them to look at the camera. (I'm not wearing my helmet as I had put on the black beanie for the previous picture - not shown here.)
Cecilia also sent me some silly string. There was a group of teenage boys hanging on the wall trying to get us to give them something. Wais and I gave them something - we squireted them with silly string. We then gave them the half-full cans. They loved it!!




Wais really enjoyed passing out the items and he was a huge help.





The group Soldier's Angles sent me several boxes of fleece blankets. They were a huge hit with the kids. Thanks to Joan Sandoval for sending the blankets.
I've been so impressed by the support that we have received from groups and individuals at home. I can't thank you enough for all you've done for us!!
Thanks everyone!!

Friday, January 12, 2007

The Afghan Adventures of Superman - Working out at the Gym



I haven't had a workout buddy for quite some time so Superman went to the gym with me today. We have to sign in so that the powers that be can keep track of how many people are using the equipment. I think they'll be honored that Superman stooped to using our lowly, humble gym.



Here he is loading the weights on the bench press. He wasn't through loading the plates when I took the picture and of course he put on several more plates and of course, this is just one side of the bar. I didn't think he was going to stop putting on the plates. I couldn't even imagine lifting that much weight in my wildest dreams.

He was benching so fast that it was a blur, hence the blurry picture. It was truly an awesome sight watching all that weight going up and down. The bar was actually bending in the middle!!!




After our upper body workout, we switched to lower body. Here he is on the leg press bench.









After an impressive workout in the weight room, we did some crunches using the swiss ball.





Because he never really got his heart rate up with the weights, he decided to try out the treadmill. Only because of the "high quality" of my camera was I able to catch this picture of him running. Otherwise it was just a blur.
What a workout!! I felt so invigorated and was grateful to my buddy for working out with me!!

The Afghan Adventures of Superman - Computer Supervisor


Here's Superman making sure that I'm getting my work done.
He's actually a great boss to work for. Sort of like Paul Johnson. (Can anyone say "suck-up?")

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

"Battle Wound" - Not Really!! I wasn't injured!!!

My sister Tiffany was telling me that her son, Will, was so proud of me being in the Army and being at "war." She said that he's fascinated with the military. I decided to send her a couple of pictures to show her kids some of the things I've been doing. Being the twisted uncle that I am, I sent this first picture. Well Will thought that I had been shot and was being treated for my wounds. I laughed but realized that a kindergarten aged little boy would have no clue as to the difference between training and real life.


So Will, your Uncle Bob was not shot. What these pictures show is me being the "patient" while another soldier practices administering an IV into my arm. I had to do the same thing to him. It was actually pretty cool. It's been so long since I did it but I hope that if the situation required I'd be able to remember.

Another Great Quote

On occasion I get really great quotes sent to me. Tonight I got another one. Janae sent it to me. It came in a card. The front of the card posed the question, “Is the glass half-empty…or half-full?” It showed a fish bowl with a cat sitting in it. Inside the card said, “Try to look on the bright side, and things will look up soon.” I thanked her for the card and said that the bright side would be having a full glass!! I’m sure I’ll hear it from all the cat lovers out there now but I chuckled at my own cleverness.

What was great about the card was the quote that she included. Janae had been reading a book about Africa by Alexander McCall Smith. She said that while the quote applied to Africa she thought it could equally apply to us here in Afghanistan. It does.

“There was so much suffering in Africa [Afghanistan] that it was tempting just to shrug your shoulders and walk away. But you can’t do that, she thought. You just can’t.”

We are faced with the same situation. Even though we are somewhat insulated when we remain here on base, once we leave the safety and comfort of Blackhorse, the suffering and poverty become so evident. I guess that’s why I’m so thankful for all of you who have been so generous with your donations either to Luke’s Eagle Scout project or who have simply sent items here.

As I said, Thursday is the day when I’ll be able to give away all the donations, other than the school supplies, that I have received thus far. I’m going on a medical mission and it’s estimated that we’ll see 600 patients, many of whom will be children. My camera arrived tonight – hooray!! So I’ll be sure to take a lot of pictures. Check back towards the end of the week and I’ll get them posted to my blog page. I’ll try to identify who sent what items in the pictures, but no promises.

My sister Tiffany is catching the spirit as well. She wants her kids to experience getting to know the Afghan children. She’s working on getting her son’s class, and hopefully school involved and doing a project to benefit the kids here. Hopefully she can inspire others to get involved as well.

Like the quote says, sometimes the temptation is to just shrug your shoulders and walk away. But, like the story of the starfish (remember that one, the little boy walking on the shore throwing in star fish and when asked why he was doing that when there were so many on the shore, said that he was making a difference in that starfish’s life, then threw it in – it’s one of BG Wilson’s favorite stories – maybe I’ll post it) when we help just one child, one family, we’re making a difference. Only here it’s so much more than just giving them a coat or a piece of candy or school supplies. I truly believe that we are influencing these children and their families, showing them that we, as Americans, are not the bad, evil people some would have us believe. If we can win the hearts of the children now, just think where this country will be in 15-20 years.

So once again, thank you to all who have helped. I don’t think you’ll ever really now just how much this will mean to these kids, these families and this country.

Monday, January 08, 2007

Kindness and Generosity

Over the last couple of months I have been amazed, thrilled, thankful and humbled at the response I’ve received for humanitarian aid. Some of you responded immediately and sent items that have unfortunately sat in my office waiting to go out – Thursday – I hope!! (I’ve been part of two previous humanitarian projects that got canceled at the last minute. Keep your fingers crossed that this one won’t fall through.)

My family has been wonderful. Luke did his Eagle Scout project of collecting school supplies, hygiene items, toys and clothes. Family and friends were incredibly generous with donations as well as cash. My parents, Janae’s parents, my brother Chris, one of my Dad’s cousins – Carl Smith, and my good friend Dave Scott all contributed large amounts of change. I’m sure I’m leaving out names and I’m sorry but know how grateful we are to you. My aunt Merleen Fox my cousin’s wife, Melissa Fox our neighbor Jaymie Jorgensen, and many others donated or sent several boxes of donations. It’s been wonderful.

I got connected with a group called Soldier’s Angels. They send out care packages, supplies and all kinds of cool things to soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan. They have been incredible. Right before Christmas I received a case of coffee/hot chocolate mugs that I got to pass out the day before Christmas. It was fun. They’ve also sent almost 100 fleece blankets that I’ll pass out to the kids. They’re sending boxes of hot chocolate as the chow hall never has any. I also found out they’re sending a box of donated jungle boots. Finally, I got a box of office supplies, magazines and candy for the soldiers. They’ve been great. I’ve been contacted by at least 5 different representatives from Soldier’s Angels and they’ve all committed to sending all kinds of things. Their biggest concern is that no soldier go unloved or unsupported.

Finally I want to thank Brian Regan’s manager or publicist as well as Brian himself. If you don’t know who the comedian Brian Regan is, he’s all the rage at home. Seth introduced us to him last year and we all love his comedy. He was in concert in Salt Lake this last weekend and Janae bought tickets for her and the boys for Christmas. They were so excited. Well I got the brilliant idea to contact him via his website. I sent his "people" an e-mail telling them that I was a soldier in Afghanistan, that it was Janae’s birthday, that the whole family, except for me would be at his concert, etc, etc, and could he say hello to them for me. Well his publicist did one better. She e-mailed me back and said that she would leave backstage passes at the box office so they could meet after the concert. I told Janae two days before the concert and she was so excited. She didn’t tell the boys until they got there and of course they were ecstatic. I called Janae on her cell phone 15 minutes before the concert started (told her to turn off her cell phone but glad that she hadn't yet) and I could hear the excitement in all their voices. The report was that the concert was incredible and meeting him after the show was even more so.

I guess what I’m trying to say is thank-you to all the people out there who love and support us. As I said, I’ve been so overwhelmed by the love and support that we’ve received from complete strangers as well as family. It has humbled me beyond description. I just hope that when I get home I can give the kind of support to our troops that I’ve received since being here. The pure love of Christ is alive and well.

Sunday, January 07, 2007

Value of Life

How would you feel if you were stuck in an arranged marriage? Setting aside our cultural taboos, how would you feel about marrying your first cousin?

What is the life of a child worth? If your newborn dies during childbirth, is someone to blame or is it simply God’s will?

When a child gets run over in the street or a soldier gets killed in the service, what is their life worth?

Well let me tell you my experience with these issues.

Of course we’d hate to be stuck in an arranged marriage. Here it’s a way of life. Many young people grow up knowing they’re going to marry their first cousin. My interpreter from the KMTC, Asmatullah, you can see his picture in the “Random Pictures” post, a few posts back. He was engaged to marry his cousin but he had the fortitude to break it off last month. Of course the families were not happy but he was in love with another young lady. He was hoping that once he broke off his engagement his family might enter into a marriage contract with his girlfriend. Today he found out that his girlfriend’s family has betrothed her to her cousin. As he was telling me I could see the tears begin to well up in his eyes. I was helping him with the paperwork to get a Visa and made the insensitive comment that maybe he’d find a young lady in the states to marry – of course I had already told him several times how sorry I was that she was marrying someone else lest you think me a complete cretin. He looked at me and said that he would never find anyone else to love. I felt so bad for him.

Another terp here at Blackhorse was in love with a classmate and they wanted to get married. He was engaged to his cousin and didn’t have the willpower to go against his family’s wishes. He married his cousin. He still sees his former girlfriend at school and it causes him quite a bit of turmoil as he is still in love with her. She no longer talks to him; either out of spite or respect that he’s now married. I feel bad for him.

So what kind of a relationship does that create with your spouse? I haven’t had the nerve to ask this direct question of anyone, least of all Wais. As I listen to him and the other terps and even our ANA counterparts talk about their families, it’s always about their children. Now it may be a cultural thing not to talk about their families but I get the very distinct impression that some, most, all of these guys have a deeper, greater love for their children. It makes me sad to think of being in that kind of relationship but then I guess that in the States we have many couples in the same kind of relationship. I guess what makes me sad is that these relationships never start out with that love, that passion that unite us in the States.

One of the terps newborns died recently. His attitude was “Enshallah” meaning God’s will. That’s a huge thing for them here, God’s Will. If you’re late it is God’s will. If your baby dies, it’s God’s will, not the doctor’s fault, the lack of sanitary conditions, a sick baby, or anything else, just God’s will. Wais tells me that death in child birth is not that uncommon here and that many children die while still young. “Enshallah” must give a measure of comfort to grieving parents to believe that it was God’s will that the baby die and I can see how it would.

The cynical lawyer in me sees it as a great way to keep malpractice costs down. I didn’t really say that did ?

Children run loose all over the place. Is it any wonder they get hit and killed by vehicles? Even the adults pay no need to traffic and walk out in front of moving vehicles and get hit and killed. If that happens, the family simply negotiates with the person who hit the person and gets paid off and it’s not very much. A few thousand Afghani is all which might only be a couple hundred bucks. Life’s not worth much here.

If you’re an Afghan soldier and killed by a coalition member, your life is worth a little over two thousand dollars. And the victim’s families will be grateful.

Life has such a different meaning and value here. Parents love their kids but don’t do a lot about keeping them safe.

Friday, January 05, 2007

Halfway?!?!

On June 5, 2006 we were activated. Seven months later, January 5, 2007, we’re halfway through out 14 month deployment. Halfway that is, if we are home on or before August 5, 2007. We arrived in country on August 20th and if the Army suddenly insisted that we remain in-country for exactly 12 months we’ve got a few more weeks to go to reach the halfway point, but since that shouldn’t happen, after today we’re on the downhill slope to going home!!! It's about freakin' time!!!

I thought I’d be a little more excited by the news, by it greeted me with little fanfare. In fact, someone else had to tell me as I would have never registered that fact.

In looking back over the last 7 months it’s all a blur. Shelby is only a bad memory, almost like a nightmare that you vaguely remember in the morning but can’t quite shake. I shudder at the thought that we have to go back before we get to go home but again, in the Army’s infinite wisdom we need to report back to Shelby to make sure our teeth are clean, our paperwork is in order, that we’re not going to go postal, etc, only to do it all again once we get home to Utah.

Now looking forward to our last 7 months here I can see where we need to go and what we need to do. The ANA have made tremendous progress in their military justice but so much more needs to be done. Yesterday we met with one of the legal officers of one of the brigades. I hadn’t made the time to actually go to his office before but am so glad that we finally did. He was so excited to have us there.

He told us of all the things he’s been doing to implement the new code. He showed me the binders he’s created that track all the disciplinary actions that the brigade takes. He told me that his brigade is conducting NJP. I figured it was the old style NJP where the commanders simply administered punishment without having a hearing. When I asked how they were doing it, he said they were following the new regulations and that he had provided them all with paperwork that was already filled out so they had samples. I was completely blown away. As we talked about all the things he’s been doing, I realized that this was a model legal officer that I needed to parade to the other brigades so they could see how a good legal department should be run. We’re going back tomorrow and I’m hoping to enlist him to help train the two other brigade legal officers on how to do what he’s been doing. This visit came at the perfect time as it’s reenergized me and helped me to focus on what we need to accomplish for our remaining time here.

So as we begin our “descent” my one hope is that I can accomplish everything that I want and need to get done.

Technology

Have you ever stopped to think how dependent you are, we are, on technology? Can you go one day without an e-mail? Can you perform your job effectively without the internet? I can’t.

Right before Christmas our network underwent an overhaul. It was only supposed to take two days but turned into six. For a week we didn’t have computer access. Our phone lines were also down. What that meant was that on Christmas, we had no phone lines, no internet access. It was pretty painful.

Since then, we’ve had continuing problems with our connectivity. Some days we have internet connection in our offices, other days we don’t. When we have no connectivity in our offices, we might be lucky and have it on the MWR (morale, welfare and recreation) computers. Sometimes not.

When the phones did come back up, it was on one single MWR phone. Then they all came up but the connections were bad. I’ve had more dropped calls the last two weeks than I did the first four months being here. It’s really frustrating. Janae and I have taken to saying “I love you” right up front (actually, there’s nothing wrong with that and maybe that should be the standard) rather than waiting until the end of the phone call as we’ve been disconnected several times.

But you know what, I’m not complaining. I know it sounds like it but I’m really not. I can’t believe how lucky I am to live where I do under the conditions that I have. Is it an inconvenience not being able to send e-mails to my counterparts here in-country? Of course. Is it a pain not being able to communicate with my family on a daily basis? Absolutely. But you know what, the fact that when conditions are optimal I can instantly send a message to my wife is amazing. I can’t imagine having to wait months for a single letter like our forefathers had to do in past wars. As soon as my personal computer gets here, we’ll be able to see each other and talk to each other even though we’re thousands and thousands of miles away. How cool is that?

The age of technology is truly amazing and a blessing.

Thursday, January 04, 2007

Happy Birthday Janae!!

It’s time to celebrate my wonderful wife’s birthday. That means it’s today, January 4. When Janae and I got engaged, my Mother asked her when her birthday was. Before she really had a chance to answer, my Mother said that Janae could not be born in January since I and the next two brothers were all born in January; me on the 31st, Chris on the 8th and Matt on the 3rd. (April must have been a very good month for my parents! Ugh, you’re not supposed to think that about your parents – Gross!!) When my Mother learned that Janae’s birthday was also in January, she threw up her hands in despair, or something like that.

Well I’m glad she was born in January. Actually I would have been glad that she was born in any month because she has blessed my life immeasurably.

It’s a wonder we ever got married though. As many of you know, when we first met I thought she was a boring, book worm and she thought I was a rich, stuck-up snob. I’m not sure where she got the rich part from but the stuck-up snob part wasn’t too far off the mark. We both remember an incident that helped cement the “snob” part. I had just come from the testing center where I had failed miserably on an exam. I ran into her in the McKay building (is that right Honey?) and she asked me how I was doing. I was so bummed out over the exam that I basically brushed her off. How rude of me!!


(The picture - she's definitely not boring!)




Added to my disinterest in her was the fact that Jason, her brother, and his friends would sit in my Gospel Doctrine class and play “devil’s advocate” which drove me crazy. Well of course she was guilty just by association. Oh, and the fact that she sat in my class holding hands with her boyfriend didn’t help. Why I don’t know as I had a girlfriend at the time.

Of course I thought she was a beautiful, talented young woman but her intellect and circle of friends, plus the fact that I had a girlfriend at Rick’s kept us apart that first year we met.

Well the Lord works in mysterious ways. While I was in Mexico on a study abroad program, the girl I had been dating got engaged and Janae had broken up with her boyfriend. That fall I remember sitting in Sacrament Meeting when she and her sister-in-law to be, Pauline, sang in church. I was entranced. Right then I decided that she wasn’t that bad and maybe I should ask her out.

Call me a coward, but it took all the courage I could muster just to call and ask her out. I figured that she would never say yes but being the rash young man that I was, I took a chance. I’ll be forever grateful that I did.

The saga of working out the details of our first date – the Homecoming Dance – is a story in and of itself but suffice it to say, we had a great time. The dance was at the Capital building. I remember as we approached the steps of the Capital, Janae looked at me and said, “I’ll race you to the top.” I’ve been chasing her ever since. As we ran up the steps, I thought to myself, “this girl is not boring after all.”

We had a great time at the dance. I don’t remember much of the details, I just remember that I had a wonderful time with her.

As we were driving away from the Capital, I remember making small talk with my roommate and his date who were in the backseat. As we drove past the Salt Lake Temple, I made the passing comment that that’s where I wanted to get married. At that very moment I had the very real impression that I could marry this girl sitting next to me.

And that, as they say, was all she wrote. The dance was on October 16th, or thereabouts and we were engaged on New Years Eve. Again, how we got engaged is another story for another time.

I couldn’t believe it then and I still can’t believe it now that I was marrying Janae Durfee. She was smart, she was beautiful, she was talented. And she still is all those things. She was described to me before we even met as a “choice and fair companion.” How true are those words. I was then and I am still now, the luckiest man in the world.

Like all husbands, we have married far above our station in life. The thing that brings me the most fear is if I have somehow drug her down to my level as opposed to her lifting me up to hers. I sometimes wonder if we husbands don’t tend to do that. Shame on us!!

Prior to being deployed, Janae had several people say to her, “how are you going to handle Bob being gone?” Well one wise woman said to her, “You’re the one woman I know who will be able to handle this.” Janae was so grateful for that comment and that has proven so true. Janae is one of those women who, when faced with a challenge, doesn’t bemoan her fate or lot in life, but is one who tackles it head on. Of course it has been hard not having a husband at home, but she has risen to the challenge and excelled.

Janae is a gifted teacher. I could tell you about how in her third year of teaching she was voted “Teacher of the Year” for the district or how she was voted “Teacher of the Year” again a couple of years ago, as a substitute teacher no less, but I think that says it all. There have been many times when we’ve been out somewhere and a child will come up to her to say “hello.” The fact that several of her students from when she first taught, who are now married and have kids of their own, would still keep in touch with her is a testament to her talents.

But that’s not where her true teaching talent lies. It lies in the way she has raised our sons. I know, I know, your children are the best but you are all sadly mistaken. We have been blessed with incredible young men. That’s not to say that they don’t have their challenges, but they are great young men. What makes me so grateful though is that Janae was blessed with the talents necessary to bring forth that greatness. Some of you may be shaking your heads at that comment, but as I’ve watched her over the years teach and train our boys, I’ve been truly amazed. I hope someday our boys will come to realize just how lucky they are to have Janae as their mother.

And then there’s her musical talents. She can play any piece on the piano. Not that Handel’s Hallelujah Chorus is the most difficult piece to play, but Janae has it mastered, or at least will once again have it mastered given a few minutes time. I still remember with great pride moving to Virginia and her stepping in and playing for the Stake Choir with very little notice or practice time. I know Lani was grateful to have her move into the ward and stake. I love to hear her play but over the years I’ve failed to let her know that. When I get home I’ll rectify that mistake and make her play while I sit and listen.

Or maybe we’ll sit at the piano and sing together. That’s what captured my heart in the first place was listening to her sing. We used to sing together but again, one of the casualties of busy schedules and hectic lives. That’s one of the positive things about this deployment though, it’s made me realize all the wonderful things in my life that I allowed to slip by the wayside.

And then there’s her literary talents. She’s always been a good writer but since I’ve been gone, she’s really excelled. Not only does she write me just about every day, but what she writes has thrilled and amazed me at her creativity. She’s very gifted!

I guess what I’m trying to say, is that she is the most wonderful blessing, most wonderful person in my life. All too often I take her for granted and that’s probably my greatest sin. Again, one of the benefits of a deployment is the opportunity to recognize mistakes and try to rectify them. She lifts me up when I’m down, she encourages me, she loves me, sometimes when I may not be deserving of that love. But that’s what makes her great.

She is truly a choice daughter of our Heavenly Father and I am the luckiest man in the world to be married to her.

So Janae, on your birthday, I love you and miss you and can’t wait to get home so that I can try to make you remember why you married this not-so-rich, stuck-up snob.




This is my favorite picuture of the two of us - when we were much younger!!















Here's Janae and the boys. She's wearing the Princess Tiara I bought her at Disneyland this last year when we were there. Her Dad called her Princess when she was little so much so, that she thought her name was Janae Princess Durfee.

Sunday, December 31, 2006

Random Photos





Here I am at the shooting range with my trusty 9mm.













Here's our LDS group meeting in our B-Hut.















This is Asmatullah, my interperter at the KMTC. He's a great young man.










Here I am in JBAD standing on top my my humvee. Aren't I an impressive sight?

Happy New Year!!

Here it is New Year’s Eve Day. One week ago it was snowing like crazy and today I’m wandering around without a jacket on. It was sunny and warm today. The mountains are still covered in snow but it’s fast melting on the ground.

I went to Phoenix on a convoy today. At the gate, the Specialist (that’s an enlisted military rank – E4) asked me if I was going to stay up until midnight tonight to celebrate. I said “absolutely – I’m a real party animal and stay up ‘till all hours of the night, especially on New Years.” OK that’s not what I really said and I’m sure someone out there who knows my “party habits” will say something about me being the life of the party – DeAnna!

Anyway, I told him since I didn’t have my wife to “party with” I didn’t have any reason to stay up. OK, I’ll confess, I have a hard time staying up much past 10 p.m. these days. I work so hard here that I’m totally drained by the end of the day and tonight will be no different. Therefore, I’ll call back in time and talk with my family while they celebrate the New Year. It will be almost midnight for them and noon for me. I think I can handle being awake at that time. Ha, ha.

But seriously though, I’m glad that 2007 is finally here. Now I can say that I’m coming home this year instead of next year. That has such a nice ring to it. Now I just have to get through the majority of 2007 for that to happen.

The New Year is always full of resolutions so I’ve made a few. I wish I could say that they’re earth shattering but alas they’re not. I want to lose 10 more pounds for a total loss since leaving home of 33 pounds. I’m not sure I can get there but so long as I quit eating all the wonderful treats everyone sent me for Chrismtas and keep going to the gym every day (oh by the way, once again, I’m alone in my trips to the gym (and that was true before a certain someone went home on leave) – I told you the false fervor would only last as long as it took to take pictures for certain blogs and get them posted), read my scriptures more dilligently, not do stupid things like I”m wont to do, pray more fervently, you know all the really important religious things that I should do but sometimes falter at.

Then there are the really important ones for when I get home. Get to work by 8:00 a.m. so that I can leave by 5:00 p.m. and get home to spend time with my family. Show an increased amount of love and attention to my wife and sons. Be a better father and husband, you know all those goals that are so important as well. I guess what it comes down to is I just want to be a better person than I am right now.

I know some of you will agree that that’s going to be an impossible task. Others of you think I’m perfect already. I won’t say which ones are right. Just know that I’m on a constant quest for perfection, I mean betterment (is that a word?).

Anyway, as the New Year fast approaches here in Afghanistan, my biggest goal is to come home alive, safe and with no additional holes in my body. My secod goal, of which I have no control over is that the rest of our Utah team comes home in the same condition.

May you all have a wonderful New Year. In 8 hours and 15 minutes, I’ll be able to say I’m coming home this year. Can’t wait!!

Fuel and Fowl

The same day Merrill took my picture in front of the tank I got to watch dinner getting prepared. You know how when you go to a convenience store and if you’re hungry you can go in and get something to eat. Well we don’t have the same type of service here but I just about got invited to dinner.

As I was filling up our humvee, I heard the sound of a chicken in distress. I looked up and saw an ANA soldier come out of their tent with a chicken flapping from his hand. I immediately knew what was going to happen.

Sure enough, the soldier took the chicken to the side of the tent, wrung it’s neck then chopped off its head. It then lay there flopping on the ground. A few minutes later, actually 11 gallons of fuel later, the soldier came back, picked the dead bird up and went back inside the tent. I’m sure that a deplucking took place with dinner followed later.

I’ve never witnessed the “execution” of a chicken while pumping gas. Now I can check that one off my book of things I’ve always wanted to do!!

Soviet Tanks

The fuel pumps are in the middle of the ANA’s tank yard. They’re Soviet era tanks. Merrill could tell you what kind they are. All I know is that they’re pretty cool and they became even cooler when I was standing in front of them getting my picture taken.

Mascots



I think I told you about the “mascots” my brother Chris sent me. Well my camera is still in route so I haven’t been able to take them anywhere. However, they did have their first "photo op" on Christmas Day. There they are with the “Wandering Christmas Tree” on the Blackhorse Rock.

Wonder Woman, SuperMan and BatMan are loving Afghanistan. They’re here to fight injustice and tyranny. Wish them luck!!

Comments Back On

For some reason, the comments option was turned off and not in the obvious location. Anyway, I fixed it so if you have a burning desire to go back and add comments to my previous posts please feel free to do so.

My lovely wife did not like the "new look" I chose for my blog when I updated so I'll try again.

Let me know what you think. But don't think I'll change it for you, just for her.

Tuesday, December 26, 2006

White Christmas










I can’t remember the last time I experienced a white Christmas. We’ve been back in Utah for over 10 years and it’s never snowed in Utah County on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day the entire time we’ve been back. Prior to that, we were in Virginia – no snow there, prior to that - San Diego – no snow, although we came back to Utah for Christmas and prior to that Utah. I think the last time it snowed on Christmas Eve was when we were still living in Utah as students. That’s been a long time ago.

Every year, I pray for snow on Christmas Eve. Every year I’ve been disappointed. Well it snowed this year. Of course I had to be in Afghanistan to experience a white Christmas but I got my wish.

It started snowing around 3:00 p.m. on Christmas Eve and it’s still snowing 24 hours later and is supposed to snow all night. I just love the snow. It makes everything, even Afghanistan, look so beautiful and clean. I wish it could stay this way forever.

Now all I want to do is go skiing. Oh well. Next year.

I wrote this entry this afternoon at yes, 3:00 p.m. It’s now almost 6:00. I just came back from dinner. I’ll tell you about that in another post.

Being the sentimental guy that I am, I had to go walking around camp enjoying the falling snow. I had my iPod with me and was listening to Christmas music. The iPod gods were smiling upon me as I took my walk.

When I turned it on, the Mormon Tabernacle Choir was right in the middle of a beautiful rendition of Silent Night. I stopped to watch the snow fall in the glow of a street lamp and enjoy the music. As I said, the iPod gods were smiling as the very next song was good ole Bing singing White Christmas, one of my favorites. I had to smile at the selection – my iPod was on shuffle so I had no idea the order of the songs. As I started walking again the gods continued to smile as Tony Bennett began to sing Winter Wonderland. I don’t know if someone was sending me a message or not but listening to those particular songs as I walked through the snow really and finally made it seem like Christmas.

I came upon three soldiers who had started a fire and were roasting smores. They invited me to join them but I didn’t figure they wanted a LTC sitting with them. They had “built” their snow guard to watch their backs. It looked like they were having a good time.

Yes, I was a little, maybe a lot, homesick, wishing Janae could be walking with me in the snow but quickly set aside those feelings and remembered why we’re here and what we’re doing.

Anyway, thanks to the iPod gods for smiling down on me tonight. Or maybe He was smiling down on me tonight and had a hand in things…

Christmas Day

A day I thought I’d dread has come and gone with very little pain but a lot of laughs, relaxation and great food. Our internet was down for two days but it came back up, sort of, late yesterday. The phones have been another matter. Some needed work had to be done before a major event this week, but unfortunately it happened right before Christmas which has made it extremely difficult, OK, impossible to talk with family on this day of days. Well, the resourceful “young” man that I am, I had alternative arrangements made. I got up at 5:00 a.m. and was able to talk with my parents and siblings as well as Janae and the boys for a few minutes on their Christmas Eve, but on my Christmas morning.

The gym was pretty empty this morning. I guess everyone was still asleep. Couldn’t blame them but I had to work off a few calories in anticipation of all the “junk” I knew I’d be eating today.

After the gym, I enjoyed three bowls of Cap’n Crunch with Crunch Berries. When we were kids, that’s what my Mom would buy us for Christmas breakfast. My brother Matt and his wife Missy sent me a box. It came a couple weeks ago. Inside was a box of Crunch Berries. I decided that I had to save if for Christmas morning. I was glad I did. I was the envy of several Marines. Of course I shared!!

Around noon I finally got around to opening my gifts. Once again, let me thank my family for spoiling me. I received some really great gifts.

When Seth was little, he read in the Children’s Friend about a tradition in some country of putting clues on gifts. Of course we try to make them really obscure so you won’t guess what they are, but that’s a tradition we’ve had for many years. The first gift I picked up was from Thor, my beloved Husky. The clue read something like, “It’s better to give of yourself.” I could tell from the package it was something soft inside. I was not at all prepared for what I found when I opened it. I thought maybe it was, oh I don’t know, a shirt or something like that. Guess what it was? It was a bag of dog hair that Janae had gathered. Inside was a note that said I needed to spread the dog hair all around my room so I’d get the full effect. I laughed out loud!! I’m still chuckling.

A little later, I picked up what was obviously a calendar. This one was from Star. The clue simply said “12.” OK, that’s was a little obvious. This time I was a little more prepared. I held my breath in dread as I ripped open the paper. Yes, I let out a scream of terror. It was worse than I thought. Not only was it a calendar of cats, it was a calendar of frilly, nauseating cats. I thought about sending it back to Star but knew that sending back gifts was impolite. So that lovely gift will remain hidden in my room where no one will have to burn out their eyes looking at it!!

My wife has such a wonderful sense of humor!! Of course I got some rather personal gifts but I won’t share those details with you. I wouldn’t want to embarrass Janae in front of her mother – kidding!!

My brother, Chris and his family as well as Jason and his family, were not to be outdone in the humorous or fun category. I got a set of “teeth.” You know the kind. The ones with the missing teeth in front, the snaggle-tooth kind, etc. I’ll have fun wearing them on our next humanitarian visit. I also got a Nerf-dart gun. Can’t wait to try it out on someone. I also got a set of super-hero action figures. Along with three villains (I hate to say this, I have no idea who they are) I got my three favorites, Batman, Wonder Woman and Superman. I’ve really gotten into Smallville – Seth, Luke and Braxton sent me season 5. I just finished season 2 so can’t wait to work my way through seasons 3-4 that I already have – thanks guys!! Anyway, Superman has reaffirmed himself as my new superhero. Anyway, I’ve decided that my new action figure will be my mascot. I’m going to take him on any mission that I go on now. Once my camera gets here, I’ll start taking pictures of all the places that Superman goes. OK, Wonder Woman and Batman can come too. I wouldn’t want them to feel left out!

Then I took a nap.

After that, I started watching Lord of the Rings, another Christmas tradition. The three years that the trilogy came out at Christmas, Santa bought tickets for the family to go to a Christmas day showing. So, I had to revive that tradition. Since I brought the extended versions with me, I didn’t get through all three movies. I couldn’t spend almost 12 hours watching movies, but I got through enough that it made me feel nostalgic for my family and the fun times we had going and watching the movies together.

Then came Christmas dinner. Once again, the chow hall staff outdid themselves. A side of beef, sufficiently rare that it wasn’t mooing but not shoe leather, turkey, ham, chilled shrimp and all the fixin’s. I was hoping for eggnog again, like we had at Thanksgiving, but the eggnog cows must have been dry. It was so nice to sit and eat with my family here; Merrill, Andy, Ron, Mike and SGT Dougal. Steve and Larry were out on a mission so weren’t there. They would have made the company complete.

After dinner I took my stroll through the snow and loved every minute. I may go back later tonight and do it again just to get my White Christmas fix. We’ll see.

Christmas Eve - A Time to Serve

Just prior to our Christmas Eve service last night, we had quite the excitement here in camp. I wasn’t directly involved and won’t have all the details, yet, but let me share with you an opportunity several of our soldiers had to serve.

A unit that was heading back to Camp Cobra was passing by our front gate. They noticed that a car was overturned by the side of the road. As they stopped to render aid, they noticed that there were two men lying in the stream. In fact, I think the car was upside down in the stream, but don’t quote me on that. Unfortunately two men had died from their injuries but two were still alive.

Our soldiers rose to the occasion, rushed them to our medical clinic here on base. Our medical folks did a great job treating their wounds, getting them warm and meeting their medical needs. Since the clinic is in my building, I got to see a little bit of their frenzied but ordered work. It was pretty cool to watch them take care of these men.

Because we don’t have the resources to provide anything but triage, an immediate medical convoy was put together to take them to another base with a hospital. Again, it was so cool to watch everyone work together to get these men the needed medical attention they needed.

I realized that just because it was Christmas Eve, the world, especially the world here in Afghanistan, did not stop. An emergency presented itself and the professionals jumped right in and did their job. It was great to watch.

Christmas Eve Afghanistan Style

With Christmas Eve being on Sunday, it was only fitting that we had a special service. I was pleased to find out COL Smith fully supported having a non-denominational service. Brother Lecker, one of our group members suggested it to him and he immediately got on board.

Steve conducted since he was the senior group leader. Of course those non-LDS members had no clue why Steve was asked to conduct but it was still pretty cool to see him up there conducting this meeting.

COL Smith was wearing a Santa hat with his rank pinned on the front. When I saw that my opinion of him shot up immeasurably. He wasn’t worried about pretense or appearance, he was enjoying himself and getting into the spirit.

He opened the meeting by telling us about what happened that morning after the ANA morning briefing. He said that MG Mangal stood up and thanked every US service member in the room. He mentioned that it was Christmas and that it was a time that Americans celebrated with family and friends. He expressed his gratitude on behalf of his country to all of us who are here, away from family and friends, for the gift of freedom that we are giving to his people. COL Smith was obviously touched by MG Mangal’s gratitude. I’m glad he shared that experience with us.

Then came the singing. A quintent of officers, enlisted and one civilian approached the mike, all wearing Santa hats. They led us in singing several Christmas carols. As I looked around the room I was surprised but impressed at who was there. There were those who I would have never guessed would show up but they did. There were those who we wished would have come but didn’t.

After we sang several songs, Merrill got up and read the Christmas story out of the Bible. He did a great job. As I sat there and listened to his voice read, I couldn’t help but think of that night so many years ago and the experiences of Mary and Joseph. As I thought of the humble circumstances I see every day here, I thought of the conditions the Savior was born in and how they were probably not that different. I must admit that it made me grateful for the comfortable surroundings I have.

After Merrill finished reading, we sang a few more songs and then we were done.

We moved to our regular location to partake of the Sacrament and the rest remained to partake of the Eucharist. A Protestant Chaplain was there to perform that service.

As we gathered in our room, there were 8 of us; Me, Steve, Merrill, Larry, Steve, Ron, Bro. Mike and Mike. It was a small group compared to what we’ve had in the past but most of our brethren are down-range until April. We really miss them.

Despite the few numbers, the Sacrament was a wonderful thing to partake of on Christmas Eve. Steve shared a few words with us that were meaningful and heartfelt. Afterwards, we hugged, shook each others hands and wished each other a Merry Christmas. It was a great way to spend Christmas Eve.

At home we have a tradition that I started. From the very first time that I saw it, I have absolutely loved Mr. Krueger’s Christmas and I make my family watch it every Christmas Eve. This year was no exception, at least for me. I watched it in my room. Jimmy Stewart is such a wonderful actor (I had just finished watching It’s a Wonderful Life the day before – my favorite Christmas movie) and as he is kneeling in front of the Savior thanking him, telling him that He is his best friend and that he loves Him, my throat tightened up with emotion as I thought of my own feelings for the Savior. Then when Clarissa tells Mr. Krueger that she loves him, the same emotions come. Isn’t that what Christmas is all about? Love?

After that, I watched Robin Hood Prince of Thieves, or at least part of it, before I fell asleep. Why Robin Hood you ask? There’s only been one other time in my married life that I’ve been separated from my family at Christmas. It was my first year in the Navy. I had just finished up Naval Justice School around the 19th of December. Janae, Seth and Luke were still with her parents in Utah. Dallin and Memorie were getting married right after Christmas so I told Janae and the boys to stay until after the wedding. I was temporarily living in Officer’s Quarters on the Naval Base at Norfolk and was all alone. I rented a VCR from the front desk and about the only movie they had that was worth watching was Robin Hood. I now associate that movie with Christmas Eve as well. Since I was separated from my family on Christmas Eve due to the military, I had to watch Robin Hood. It was just as good as when I watched it on Christmas Eve 14 years ago. (Kevin Costner’s accent is still just as bad in case you were wondering.)

Anyway, that was my Christmas Eve.

Sunday, December 24, 2006

The True Meaning of Christmas

I’ve been trying to come up with something meaningful and heartfelt to say for Christmas and I was struggling. I’ve already shared my feelings about Christmas this year, the shepherds and their sheep and the thoughts and feelings that sight invoked. But I wanted to share something more but struggled with exactly what to say.

Then I received this article from the LDS group leader at Bagram. As I read this article I realized it captured everything I would have wanted to say this year. I love President Hinckley. I love to listen to him speak. I love to listen to his words. So I suppose it’s more than fitting to share his message with you all.

Before I do though, let me say thank you to all of you have offered a prayer on my behalf. I can’t tell you how grateful I am for the tremendous amount of support I have received since I’ve been here. Thank you for the support you have given my family. They have been so blessed while I’ve been here.

To my family and friends know that I have a testimony of the Savior. I am so grateful to Him for his atoning sacrifice. With all the mistakes I make I am grateful that He has provided a way to save me from myself. Can you imagine how awful life would be without the hope that He has provided for us.

And it all started one night, so long ago.

May the spirit of the season fill your hearts and homes. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. And even though I can’t physically be there, I am in spirit.

I love you!!

Merry Christmas!!

The Wondrous and True Story of Christmas (by Gordon B. Hinkley)

What a glorious season is this time of Christmas. Hearts are softened. Voices are raised in worship. Kindness and mercy are reenthroned as elements in our lives. There is an accelerated reaching out to those in distress. There is an aura of peace that comes into our homes. There is a measure of love that is not felt to the same extent at any other time of the year.
With you, I have sung, as others have sung for almost three centuries, the words of Isaac Watts set to the music of George Frideric Handel:

Joy to the world, the Lord is come;
Let earth receive her King!
Let ev’ry heart prepare him room,
And Saints and angels sing.
Rejoice! Rejoice in the Most High,
While Israel spreads abroad
Like stars that glitter in the sky,
And ever worship God.(Hymns, no. 201)

My heart is subdued when I think of the great love of my Heavenly Father. How grateful I am to know that God loves us. The incomprehensible depth of that love found expression in the gift of His Only Begotten Son to come into the world to bring hope into our hearts, to bring kindness and courtesy into our relationships, and above all to save us from our sins and guide us on the way that leads to eternal life.

Marvelous is the chronicle that began with the singing of angels at Bethlehem and ended on Golgotha’s cruel cross. There is no other life to compare with His life. He was the one perfect man to walk the earth, the paragon of excellence, the singular example of perfection.
I sense in a measure the meaning of His Atonement. I cannot comprehend it all. It is so vast in its reach and yet so intimate in its effect that it defies comprehension.

“Oh, eloquent, grand, and mighty death!” said Sir Walter Raleigh as he was about to die in the Tower of London.

I remember speaking at a funeral service of a good man, a friend whose goodness caused me to reach a little higher. Through the years I had known his smiles, his kind words, the play of his brilliant intellect, the great breadth of his service to others. And then he who had been so bright and good suddenly died. I looked upon his lifeless form. There was neither recognition nor motion nor word of any kind. With such stern finality the mantle of the reaper had quickly enfolded him and made him so different.

I looked up at his weeping widow and children. They knew, as I knew, that never again in mortality would they hear his voice. But a tender sweetness, indescribable in nature, brought peace and reassurance. It seemed to say, “Be still, and know that I am God” (Ps. 46:10).
It seemed further to say, “Don’t worry. All of this is part of my plan. None can escape death. Even my Beloved Son died upon the cross. But through so doing He became the glorious firstfruits of the Resurrection. He took from death its sting and from the grave its victory.”
I could hear in my mind the Lord speaking to the sorrowing Martha: “I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live. And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die” (John 11:25–26).

When all is said and done, when all of history is examined, when the deepest depths of the human mind have been explored, nothing is so wonderful, so majestic, so tremendous as this act of grace when the Son of the Almighty, the Prince of His Father’s royal household, He who had once spoken as Jehovah, He who had condescended to come to earth as a babe born in Bethlehem, gave His life in ignominy and pain so that all of the sons and daughters of God of all generations of time, every one of whom must die, might walk again and live eternally. He did for us what none of us could do for ourselves.

I have a simple story I would like to recount. It is something of a parable. I do not have the name of the author. Perhaps it will have special interest for our children. I hope it will be a reminder for all.

“Years ago there was a little one-room schoolhouse in the mountains of Virginia where the boys were so rough that no teacher had been able to handle them.

“A young, inexperienced teacher applied, and the old director scanned him and asked: ‘Young fellow, do you know that you are asking for an awful beating? Every teacher that we have had here for years has had to take one.’

“ ‘I will risk it,’ he replied.

The first day of school came, and the teacher appeared for duty. One big fellow named Tom whispered: ‘I won’t need any help with this one. I can lick him myself.’

The teacher said, ‘Good morning, boys, we have come to conduct school.’ They yelled and made fun at the top of their voices. ‘Now, I want a good school, but I confess that I do not know how unless you help me. Suppose we have a few rules. You tell me, and I will write them on the blackboard.’

“One fellow yelled, ‘No stealing!’ Another yelled, ‘On time.’ Finally, ten rules appeared on the blackboard.

“ ‘Now,’ said the teacher, ‘a law is not good unless there is a penalty attached. What shall we do with one who breaks the rules?’

“ ‘Beat him across the back ten times without his coat on,’ came the response from the class.

“ ‘That is pretty severe, boys. Are you sure that you are ready to stand by it?’ Another yelled, ‘I second the motion,’ and the teacher said, ‘All right, we will live by them! Class, come to order!’

“In a day or so, ‘Big Tom’ found that his lunch had been stolen. The thief was located—a little hungry fellow, about ten years old. ‘We have found the thief and he must be punished according to your rule—ten stripes across the back. Jim, come up here!’ the teacher said.

The little fellow, trembling, came up slowly with a big coat fastened up to his neck and pleaded, ‘Teacher, you can lick me as hard as you like, but please, don’t take my coat off!’

“ ‘Take your coat off,’ the teacher said. ‘You helped make the rules!’

“ ‘Oh, teacher, don’t make me!’ He began to unbutton, and what did the teacher see? The boy had no shirt on, and revealed a bony little crippled body.

“ ‘How can I whip this child?’ he thought. ‘But I must, I must do something if I am to keep this school.’ Everything was quiet as death.

“ ‘How come you aren’t wearing a shirt, Jim?’

“He replied, ‘My father died and my mother is very poor. I have only one shirt and she is washing it today, and I wore my brother’s big coat to keep me warm.’

The teacher, with rod in hand, hesitated. Just then ‘Big Tom’ jumped to his feet and said, ‘Teacher, if you don’t object, I will take Jim’s licking for him.’

“ ‘Very well, there is a certain law that one can become a substitute for another. Are you all agreed?’

“Off came Tom’s coat, and after five strokes the rod broke! The teacher bowed his head in his hands and thought, ‘How can I finish this awful task?’ Then he heard the class sobbing, and what did he see? Little Jim had reached up and caught Tom with both arms around his neck. ‘Tom, I’m sorry that I stole your lunch, but I was awful hungry. Tom, I will love you till I die for taking my licking for me! Yes, I will love you forever!’ ”

To lift a phrase from this simple story, Jesus, my Redeemer, has taken “my licking for me” and yours for you.

Declared the prophet Isaiah:

“Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: …
“… He was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed” (Isa. 53:4–5).

This is the wondrous and true story of Christmas. The birth of Jesus in Bethlehem of Judea is preface. The three-year ministry of the Master is prologue. The magnificent substance of the story is His sacrifice, the totally selfless act of dying in pain on the cross of Calvary to atone for the sins of all of us.

The epilogue is the miracle of the Resurrection, bringing the assurance that “as in Adam all die, even so in Christ shall all be made alive” (1 Cor. 15:22).

There would be no Christmas if there had not been Easter. The babe Jesus of Bethlehem would be but another baby without the redeeming Christ of Gethsemane and Calvary, and the triumphant fact of the Resurrection.

I believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of the Eternal, Living God. None so great has ever walked the earth. None other has made a comparable sacrifice or granted a comparable blessing. He is the Savior and the Redeemer of the world. I believe in Him. I declare His divinity without equivocation or compromise. I love Him. I speak His name in reverence and wonder. I worship Him as I worship His Father, in spirit and in truth. I thank Him and kneel before His Beloved Son who reached out long ago and said to each of us, “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest” (Matt. 11:28).

For each of you may this be a merry Christmas. But more importantly, I wish for each of you a time, perhaps only an hour, spent in silent meditation and quiet reflection on the wonder and the majesty of this, the Son of God. Our joy at this season is because He came into the world. The peace that comes from Him, His infinite love which each of us may feel, and an overwhelming sense of gratitude for that which He freely gave us at so great a cost to Himself—these are of the true essence of Christmas. (Gordon B. Hinckley, “The Wondrous and True Story of Christmas,” Ensign, Dec. 2000, 2)

Christmas Gifts



Let me start off by saying that I have a wonderful supportive family who has made sure that I have a few gifts to open this year. Janae started sending me gifts last month to make sure they all got here on time. With the gifts she sent a small Christmas tree, a Nativity set, a stocking, garland and bows. My room has been quite festive. She also sent me three boxes of gifts. She spoiled me.

Then over the course of the last few weeks, I’ve received gifts from my parents, my brother Chris and his family, my brother Matt and his family, my wonderful in-laws, the Durfees and my brother-in-law, Jason and his family. As I received the gifts I just shoved the boxes under my bed and didn’t really pay attention to just how much I was getting. Boy was I surprised when I put them out.




Steve told me that he had put out his gifts under his tree and that he was going to get on his webcam and open gifts with his family. What a great gift. My computer isn’t here yet so can’t webcam with my family, although Steve did offer to let me use his computer – he’s the best!! Anyway I decided that today, Friday, when I was cleaning my room I’d put out my gifts under my tree. You can imagine my surprise when I saw just how blessed and loved I am. See for yourselves!

I joked with Janae that I should get deployed more often as numerically, I’ve received more gifts that I’ve ever received. But you know what, I’d gladly give up every single gift to be home with my family. Oh well, no use lamenting the fact that I’m not home. I’m just grateful to a wonderful, kind and generous family.

I love you guys!!!